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Hey there! I'm Clay. I'm the creator of the Ex Solution Program. If you're an action-taker who wants to get their ex back, I’ll show you everything you need to know to have a deeper and more profound connection with your ex, so that you both can have a second shot at lasting love (even if your situation feels hopeless.)


(Even If They Swear Up and Down It's Over For Good)

Want a Rare Chance At Making Things Right With the Person You Love And Have a Loving and Thriving Relationship Than Ever Before?

I’ve created a comprehensive online training program called:

The Ex Solution Program

The Ex Solution Program is for people who want to rebuild a stronger connection with their ex so that they get get another chance to have that great, wonderful, romantic, sexy, and fulfilling relationship with the person that they love.

The Ex Solution Program is for people who want to rebuild a stronger connection with their ex so that they get get another chance to have that great, wonderful, romantic, sexy, and fulfilling relationship with the person that they love.

This program is an online video course that I compiled from years of teaching and coaching people personally how to get back together with their ex after their ex had completely given up on them.

These coaching clients have paid thousands of dollars to work with me to help them save their relationships… many of those clients are now in a relationship with or married to the people they used to call their ex.

Here’s a peek at what you can find inside the Ex Solution Program so you can decide it’s right for you before you sign up today:

How to Maximize Your Chances of Reuniting With Your Love

  • The secret emotion your ex feels that will literally make it impossible for you two to get back together (At least until you destroy this emotion once and for all with the Advanced Relational Skills we cover in the course)
  • A stealth way to ethically take your ex’s focus off of anyone they might be dating right now, and pull it right back to you (This is how you can get your ex back from a rebound relationship)
  • How to never run out of things to talk to your ex about that will open them up and sharing more of themselves with you than you ever imagined possible
  • How often you should contact your ex before asking them to meet up with you (and what to do if they are still reluctant)
  • The 5 WORST mistakes you can make when texting your ex that will completely kill the good vibes between you and have them ignoring your messages
  • How to ask your ex for what you really want without coming across as pushy or risking turning them off (this is the key to having more connection and a rational discussion about the two of you)
  • Your ex says that they don’t love you anymore, so your situation is hopeless, right? Wrong. When you understand your ex’s emotional psychology, you’ll see why you absolutely still have a chance (even if things seem hopeless)
  • The secret revealed by Ernest Hemingway that will get your ex to respond to your messages even if you’ve tried EVERYTHING already
  • How a behavioral psychologist discovered how to get your ex to completely forget about their rebound relationship, and devote all of their attention to you.
  • Why your ex isn’t even willing to talk to you, and the surprisingly counter-intuitive thing you can do to get them to open up to you again
  • How to dissolve the pressure and anxiety you may feel around your ex so that you can relax and be the easy-going person they fell in love with

Including How to Deepen The Emotion Connection So That Your Ex Realizes How Much You Mean to Them:

  • The two “magic questions” you can use to open your ex up and get them sharing their deepest emotions with you
  • Why trying to have sex with your ex could actually backfire on you terribly, unless you make sure THIS is in place first
  • How ordering an ice cream cone can actually help you get your ex back (yes, you read that right)
  • Worried about walking on eggshells around your ex? Use the simple 4-step communication strategy to make sure that you don’t piss off your ex or risk having your words taken the wrong way
  • The most dangerous thing people do when they contact their ex that actually destroys their chances of getting back together (and, no, it has nothing to do with begging, pleading, or being desperate)
  • The little understood difference between persistence and knowing when to move on (most people give up right before their ex is actually about to have a change of heart)
  • Getting nothing but dead silence after texting your ex? Follow these texting and contact guidelines to get back on speaking terms fast
  • Why you absolutely do NOT need to worry about attracting your ex back (hint: they are ALREADY attracted to you, even if they say they aren’t, and I’ll prove it to you)
  • How and when to apologize to your ex (don’t even think of apologizing to your ex unless you meet these criteria and follow this communication strategy, or else you’ll really be sorry)
  • Does your ex want to be “friends” with you? Believe it or not, this is actually a GOOD thing… if you know how to leverage it to your advantage properly
  • The 5 emotional stages of getting back together that your ex will pass though (how to identify which stage your ex is in, and what you should do in each stage)
  • The reason the “No Contact Rule” hasn’t worked for you (and why it will continue to fail until you make this one small tweak to it)
  • The ONLY time you should ever think directly asking your ex to get back together with you (if you ignore this, don’t be surprised if you experience a humiliating rejection)
  • The 3 sentences you can say at the end of a date with your ex that shows them that you really have changed for the better
  • Every time you look in the mirror, you are either looking at your biggest obstacle in getting your ex back or your greatest ally. I’ll show you how to make sure you’re your own biggest supporter.
  • Plus a whole lot more!

I'm Not Holding Back Here...

Every strategy I’ve compiled is in here, from helping people save their relationships (since 2009) to increasing the positive bond between you and your ex so that you can get back together with them.

These are all the strategies and techniques that I’ve learned over the years from helping personal coaching clients (who pay several thousand dollars to get help with their relationships) get back together with their exes.

These are real life people who are now back together with, married to, or enjoying raising a family together with the people that they used to call their ex.

Also, I know that every relationship is unique and you might have a tricky situation or need a little bit of extra help.

If that’s the case, then you also have the option of adding the “Modern Love Community to your membership when you join today.

What You Get Inside The Modern Love Community:

  • Specific support and advice for your unique situation Monthly Challenge lessons (ONLY available to community members) to help maximize your progress with your ex.
  • The opportunity to ask your questions during our weekly Mentorship Q&A sessions with the creators of the program Access to the archives of previous Mentorship Q&A sessions answering every conceivable question you might possibly have
  • Plus special surprise gifts, early access to new courses, discounts, and other members only perks

Your Membership Fees Help Take the Stand Against Domestic Abuse and Child Abuse

For each month you're a member of the Modern Love Community, not only will you be learning the skills you need to get your ex back, you'll be helping heal the trauma of victims from sexual assault, domestic abuse, and child abuse.

10% of All Membership Fees Are Donated to the Joyful Heart Foundation

Why The Ex Solution Program May Not Be Right For You:

This Is NOT For You If...

  • You think a “ninja” text message is all it’s going to take to save your relationship
  • You are looking for mind games or reverse psychology tricks to use on your ex
  • You don’t want to put any actual work into saving your relationship, you just want to know what to say
  • You don’t have the patience or discipline to follow instructions
  • You don’t want to take responsibility for the results you’re getting with your ex or in life
  • You are looking for mind games or reverse psychology tricks to use on your ex
  • You don’t want to put any actual work into saving your relationship, you just want to know what to say
  • You don’t have the patience or discipline to follow instructions
  • You don’t want to take responsibility for the results you’re getting with your ex or in life

If the Above Sounds Anything Like You...

Maybe there’s a place for you somewhere on the internet, but it isn’t here.

We've worked with people who turned out to be not the best fit because they wanted short cuts and were not willing to do the work that we've laid out inside the program. The last thing we want to do is waste anyone's time or your money.

If I haven’t scared you away yet, there’s still a chance that you might be a good fit for the Ex Solution Program.

And if you want in, I invite you to join.

Why People Love Our Program

1. Support From REAL PEOPLE Who Care About Your Results

You can post your questions to the Modern Love Community and get advice and feedback from other members and our team (even from Clay and Mika). You can also ask the creators of the program your specific questions inside the weekly Mentorship Q&A. We don’t just give you a book and say, “Good luck, I hope you figure this out.” We’re here for you over the long haul as we help hold you accountable to sticking to the materials inside the program so that you can maximize your chances of getting your ex back.

2. Based On Successful People's REAL RESULTS

We've helped thousands of people get results. We've cried, bled and sweat committing our time to helping those going through a breakup.  What we teach inside the Ex Solution Program is based on the results we've gotten with the thousands of people we've worked with over the course of time. We've helped people reunite with their ex, save their marriage, or even get married  and have children because of us. This isn't a "hobby", helping people with their breakups and love life is our PASSION.

3. No "Fluff Talk..." Only Real Advice to Help You Move Forward

We don't dish out B.S. advice. None of that "Time heals all wounds" or "If it was meant to be, it was meant to be" type of advice. Nope. Nada. Not an ounce of "fluff" advice you'll be getting. Instead you will get tangible advice based on interpersonal relating skills that will maximize the emotional connection between you and your ex so that you can stand head and shoulders above the person who your ex think they broke up with (or who your ex might be currently dating.)


Risk Free Guarantee to You:

Take all the time you need and try the Ex Solution Program out for a full 60 days.

Follow the program, do what it says, and see the dramatic changes that occur in your life and in your relationship with your ex.

If for any reason, you’re not happy, just go ahead and let one of my staff members know. We’ll give you every cent of your money back, and we’ll part as friends. No hard feelings.

Give it a try. You have nothing to lose.

JOIN TODAY$147

What People Are Saying:

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Katie



I went from a seemingly impossible situation to being reunited with my girlfriend. Considering that I now have the woman of my dreams back in my life, the money I invested in this coaching program was worth every penny. Mika and Clay are passionate about helping people get back together and supporting their clients. Their advice was spot-on. Without it, I would have never gotten back together with my girlfriend. We are now talking about the possibility of getting married. UPDATE: Married in summer of 2014

Stephen C., USA
Stephen C., USA Ex Solution Program Member

Clay I am 75 years old.I joined your 2 programs and your basic sensible advice turned an unstable romance of 18 months into a peaceful loving respectful romance. Even just me following your program had a great impact on both of us. Thank you. By the way my partner is 72,  so never say never .It is all about the emotional connectedness as you always hammer in your program. Very impressed with your insights and lack of superficiality in your program and you are so young to have this approach. Thanks Clay!

Mary Jane, Canada
Mary Jane, Canada Ex Solution Program Member

MY EX AND I ARE BACK TOGETHER AND IT FEELS GREAT. I am so thankful for what this program has done not only for my relationship, but for my entire life. I wouldn't have made it out of that break up as well as i did if it wasn't for the support of the community and all the advice from Clay, Mika, Francis, and Rashmi. I am beyond blessed to have had so much help and support in such a dark time in my life. I will continue to be active in the community and work hard on my relationship for as long as possible. I know tough times are still ahead and we have to continue to work on things, but he is so worth it. For all of those out there losing hope, keep on fighting. Keep your head up and really give it your all. Don't be afraid to take extra time for ANC or to post on the forum to ask for help. Amazing things will come to those who put in the effort.

Samantha H., USA
Samantha H., USA Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member

I live in Canada and my husband left for the Philippines where he found the woman and lived with her for about a year. He said they broke up several times during the year they were together and just knew it will never work. We are now carefully planning our getting back together and we both agreed it will not be the same relationship he walked out of. Believe me I learned a lot from you and can never thank you enough. What a comfort you are to me during my darkest hours. I thought how can this young couple have so much wisdom? Keep up the good work and thank you again. I feel that you are sincere in wanting to help others

Angie C., USA
Angie C., USA Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member

We were broken up for 4 months before I joined. The tables turned and I wasn't sure I wanted to be with him after all of it. He had to prove to me that things would be different this time and that we would work through the issues we had before and only then did we decide return as a couple. Now we are going through pre-marital counseling and planning to marry next year already! Don't give up. Follow through the program. Yes, it will be hard and painful at times, but trust the process and it'll pay off. UPDATE: Married him in 2014 and welcomed a new baby in autumn of 2016

Faye C.
Faye C. Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member, USA

My wife and I are on the road to reconciliation and we’ve been dating, hanging out together and wearing our wedding bands again. We’re in the early stages of making plans for building a house where we can all live and start afresh…  Along with my faith in Christ and your private community, I was able to understand my wife’s emotions and how to respond so that I’m sensitive with her but without compromising what’s important to me was something that I had to learn in a very pragmatic and real way.

Edwin M.
Edwin M. Ex Solution Program Member, Austrailia

I am one who got back together with my ex. We had a very tender moment where he was able to tell me (with a few tears of gratitude) that he was so grateful for a second chance with me after making such a horrible mistake. We are doing well and I'm still able to practice acceptance and awareness and remain in the moments when we are together. A quote I like: "A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment. Keep your doors and windows open. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world, will not make them leave. Trust that truth." I've adopted this truth into my thinking. I also have made this my personal mantra if you will and I find it so important in this unique situation of being back together with B and moving forward: I'm letting go of what was (the old relationship) and accepting what is (where things are in the process in the NOW, being present) and I'm hopeful for what will be (the new relationship and what's coming). I know a lot of you are really hurting. Stick with the program. What you'll get (the ex back is just the icing in the cake) is a stronger and healthier YOU!! Blessings all!

Lisa S., USA
Lisa S., USA Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member

I am writing to tell you that, after 6 months and a half following your advice to the letter, I got my ex back!Here is a little feedback and my own success story, feel free to publish it on your website if you want to. Yesterday night, as my ex held my hand, told me I was the only woman he ever wanted to be with, and asked me to go back with him, my thoughts went to you and your program. THANK YOU so much for making this possible. Your newsletter, podcasts, videos, and classes have not only provided with much precious advice, but also kept me hopeful and positive. Finding Clay's emails in my mailbox everyday meant so much for me. When I was feeling sad, and it seemed to me that mine was a lost cause, watching Clay's videos gave me endless confidence and motivation. After six months and a half of patience and commitment, I got my ex back! With much, much gratitude.

Boonyi K.
Boonyi K. Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member

Things went fantastic. We were laughing and joking like old times. Eventually he brought up that he thinks he can tell that I’d like to try things again and he’s okay with that as long as we take it slowly and let things happen on their own time. I know that I’m not nearly finished working on myself and my relationship (and we never really are, are we?), but I’m so glad to have gotten here and I owe all of you my thanks and gratitude. This will be a long journey for my ex and I, but I’m excited to see where it takes me.

Kelly W., USA
Kelly W., USA Ex Solution Program & Online Community Member
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Andrea C., ESP OSG Member: I’m so thankful for you & Clay ! I don’t think I would have known how to respond appropriately to seeing him without you guys and I’ve gained so much personal independence through this too. Thanks again!

 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMJean J. ESP OSG Member: Hello, its been 6 months since my wife left, its been a tuff time especially the first weeks and months. The course provided me with everything i needed to understand where my relationship had gone wrong and gave excellent techniques on how to bring the person back into my life. Some of the techniques seemed counter intuitive to start with but the more i applied them the more i noticed that they were really working. I’m now back on good speaking terms with my ex, we enjoy each others company and it feels like we are building something positive, its not romantic yet but she has been confiding in me about her rebound relationship and telling me that its not working and she misses the things we did together when she is with him. She told me she wants to break it off with him and is giving positive signs that there might be a future for us.
Thanks for all the resources and support – its a really great course that i would recommend to without hesitation. 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMJennifer M. ESP OSG Member:

This is a very long story and I have posted most of it on here so if u really want to get in to the details I tried to post all along. Also, I will say that I started this program to get my ex hubby back but I was in no shape to do it so the first couple posts are about him. I started dating Joey which is my ex I got back. We only dated for a short time but we had a very deep connection. I broke things off becuz his job was driving me nuts as a truck driver…his hours were insane and I felt I could never see this man.

I regretted the break up from the moment I did it. He would never take me back as he was hurt that I did it to start with. I went into ANC from go. Did a few weeks and he contacted me but I kept it up. Then we did see each other but it was too much too soon. I spent the weekend with him.

Too much!! (Oct 31 2014)Then I backed off again for a couple weeks and tried to go a bit slower we made it to the end of the dragon/start of crisis and I went into DCM. Well, he met a new girl online and started talking to me less and less.finally we had a fight and he told me to never call him again. When I went to get my stuff from him I was crying and told him I was sorry and that I never intended on loosing his friendship. 

He said we could be friends someday but he need to get his head straight and he would call(June 12, 2014). Well, 3 months in and no call. I was driving by his job one day and i sent him a message saying hey did u switch jobs? He said are u hinting for my new number? I said what? He said, call me and gave me his new number. (Sept 2015) We talked a good while and he never mentioned a girlfriend. I started contacting him every now and again to chat or with an interesting fact. I was taking reiki at the time and he was very interested in it. He actually came to my house twice for it. When i was walking him out I noticed he was in a different car and asked whose it was….he said his gf. He had been with her since the same time we stopped talking.

WOW. I played it cool and just kept on. Decoy effect! Finally one night we were talking a few weeks later and he told me he moved out from her home.(Jan 2015) He said they had grown to be just friends..WHEW!!!!! I was thinking rebound!!!! lol But he started writing me out of the blue about then too. I was like oh game on!!! And it began. ARS!!!!! Be curious!!!! He asked me to go camping with him and his kids not long after that at cabin at the lake. He would kiss me one minute and say we were friends the next!! Driving me nuts!!!! I was not perfect I did loose composure a couple times but I feel we had the emotional currency to stay connected.

When we hit the crisis point it was just like Clay says they get weird! We were talking and hanging out all the time until one day my love pulled WAY back. I was asking him what was wrong and it was nothing. I was trying to be calm and honestly I did not do perfect. I finally asked him no really where have u gone? He told me that he had started to get feelings and he was getting emotional and cry a lot etc so he pulled back to process it all and do mindless things and asked me to left him process. It was shortly after that he really started coming around and he told me that he loved me and wanted to give us a try. We had a our new beginnings talk about 3 days ago and when he left my house he text me, I love u jenn!!! You make me happy!!

Awww….I would say not getting caught up in it and keeping composure were the hardest parts for me! Like how the heck do I keep composure when this dude has called me everyday for 3 months and has up a disappeared after we had a great Easter together?? So yeah, my advice is to try not to get caught up in it. It is going to be crazy and take longer than u think. We broke up Nov. 22nd, 2014 btw. Dont forget to love u and not think of this all the time. I would post reminder notes on my wall to be curious, keep composure etc. Less is more and any progress is forward. The turtle wins the race. Good luck guys!!! This program can only work if you do it and that does not mean that it will work every time but for me it is was worth the chance of just seeing if it could work!!!

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMMichelle M. ESP OSG Member: Hi OSG! I haven’t been on too much lately, but I’ve been in the ESP program for a little more than six months. D and I are dating without being in a labeled relationship yet.

I need certain things from him before I’m ready to do that again. We see eachother 3-4 times a week and talk for hours; it’s amazing! We talk every day and he always says goodnight and “I love you” before bed. The period of time where we were required to be Seperated before filing for divorce has come and gone with no intention from him to actually do so.

There is just this connection and appreciation for one another between us that I never dreamed could exist! What a loooonnngggg six months! There was a rebound that only recently has been out of the picture. It’s been a roller coaster and more than once have I almost given up. But I’m at a place now that’s so fufilling that I’m not worried about an end game! And it’s all because of ARS.

The most fundamental piece of advice that I can give is: you HAVE to love yourself before you can progress in ARS. Without being ok with who you are and being ENOUGH for yourself, you’ll never be able to fully get out of DCM. You’ll always be focused on the end game because you believe the relationship bring you validation and happiness instead of realizing that you’re the only person who can provide those things. Being your own person, with your own goals and dreams is so attractive! The only person you can rely and count on at the end of the day is yourself so put YOU first and make YOU a priority instead of “getting your ex back”.

If you NEED your ex, then that’s a sign that you need ANC and to self improve. Accept, Accept, Accept. D works a lot and sometimes he doesn’t want to spend one of his days off with me. Sometimes he wants to spend it with a friend. Sometimes his depression magnifys and he doesn’t want to talk for a couple days.

He is his own person and his choices and actions are a reflection of himself and not a representation of my worth. If you really truely love someone, you’ll give them the space and acceptance to be themselves without pressure. Not abiding someone’s wishes, like pushing your ex into a romantic roll when they’re uncomfortable is selfish and immature.

Process not events. Oh lord, I cannot stress this enough! I had a very hard time until I really took this to heart. Focusing on ARS and being the best version of yourself really is the only way to do it! Focusing on the end game or events are going to make you unhappy and who likes to be unhappy??

I suggest reading Clay’s book Be Loved For Who You Are. He really goes into depth on how to overcome your BS machine and how to change your belief system. There are a lot of questions on the MQAs that make me wonder if some people actually listened to the modules. Seriously, focus on this program and you will achieve your goal. It’s very simple, maybe not easy, but so so simple!! I wish everyone good luck.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMOiva., ESP Member: Hi my name is Oiva and have been a member of Ex Solution Program for a while since 2014.  I have great news to share I have gotten back together with my ex for a month. Now things between us are going well my story goes like this: After trying everything to get him back for more than a year. i stop trying and moved on with my life we remain friends and I would contact him some times just to greet him sometimes he replyed sometimes not.  One day he just sms me saying “baby i want you back i love you” i thought he was not serious but he insisted to see me than we met and kissed he told me he loves me an want to be with me. i just want to tell people trying to get their ex back not to give up the program does work thank you  to everyone that helped me throught the difficult times.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMZoe L., ESP OSG Member: Could you please post my success story in the OSG? I’m hoping this will be a source of encouragement for everyone in the community: Last night my ex asked if he could come over because he really wanted to see me. I reluctantly agreed. 

The second I opened the door, he walked in without saying a word, grabbed me and picked me up, then said, “I’m still in love with you.”  My heart jumped out of my chest! I couldn’t believe it was happening, especially after I’d given up on the idea of reconciliation because it seemed impossible at that point.  

I honestly owe it all to active no contact. Time away from my ex was much needed. It was so important to get “me” back. Working on ARS was equally important. It helped me communicate with my ex in a way I never thought I could. I’m not going to lie, it wasn’t an easy process. And, if any of you remember, I did give up on the idea of getting back together at one point. But time allowed my ex to come around and it  let me get to a healthier, more balanced place in my life.  

If you feel that time away from your ex is needed, I would highly recommend it. Practice ARS whenever you can and no matter how discouraged you may feel, just remember that getting back together with your ex really can happen. So please keep your chin up. Thank you all for your support while I was a member of OSG. I will miss you all dearly.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMTammy C., ESP OSG Member: Hi Clay, Just a quick note to let you know that your program saved my relationship. I followed your program to the T. I definitely had to challenge myself with some of your steps. The no contact, changing my thought process and becoming the person I was when we met and a personal choice to start a new relationship in lew of going back to where we were when I left him.

I also had to choose to forgive him and he had to forgive me and let the past go. Once I made it past “that wall” you spoke about in your lessons. It didn’t happen overnight. We split up in April and no contact for 7 very long weeks. We start with a few texts, then a few phone calls. We finally seen each other in August and kept in contact. Finally in September he invited me to go back to our home in NC from Florida and it is brand new for us.

When we finally decided to let the past go. I understand it’s still new but we’ve been able to put everything out on the table maturely and decided those things weren’t worth losing all the good things we do have together.

We are both over 50 yrs old. We may never find this again. He is once again comfortable telling me things, the jealousy is gone, we once again laugh and joke around. I cannot thank you enough!

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMCharmaine., ESP OSG Member: I am exceedingly happy to be moving on to a new relationship with my ex, now boyfriend. I won’t ever forget your support, encouragement and guidance. With many of you, I have shared a unique camaraderie which I know will continue for years to come. I now look forward to whatever life and love uncovering new and exciting experiences. I have no doubt my new relationship with my ex will add and enrich my relationship with him, with others but more importantly with myself. I deeply appreciated having this wonderful opportunity to work, grow and learn with you all.

As heart-breaking as it is to share these unfortunate circumstances, I am ever so grateful to have shared an abundance of over joyous-AND the deeply painful moments with all of you. It is important for you to know that I will treasure our ESP/OSG companionship immensely and to no end. I like to think I have extended that same sentiment to all of you. I hope that I too have had a momentous impact on all of you as well. I cannot find the words to detail the countless heartfelt moments that I will reflect on, and will sincerely miss here. In sum, I wish all of you every success and all it’s future endeavors.  One last question before I say good-bye, for Clay, Mika and the ESP Team: HOW CAN I EVER THANK YOU!!!?

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMAngie C., ESP OSG Member: When we saw each other, it felt like time has not passed. We talked over dinner and I was in a good place. He told me that he has been dating around and has yet to find someone like me. As we walked to his car, I was nervous and I knew that I need to keep it cool. J. opened the car door for me and we sat in his car for a while. He kept telling me he wanted to date me again just for fun and I said well I am not that girl. He kissed me but I knew that he was lying to me, he still loved me. I could tell by his body language. I told him your in love with me still and you won’t admit it.

We hung out the last couple of times and it was nice but one night he came to my neck of the woods and told me he loved me and that he wants to be with me… J. told me he will make sure not to hurt me again and be present in my life as he should have been. I told him I can live without you but I don’t want to. We are together but there is no title yet because we are taking it really slow. I noticed how mature he is now and doesn’t get jealous as easy anymore. I’m not as clingy, we don’t talk everyday or hang out everyday but there is enough communication where I know where we stand. J. told me he knows I am the one and still wants to marry me when the time is right.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMSam W., ESP OSG Member: Hey Clay and Mika, I just wanted to drop you guys a quick email to inform you of some great news. Abi and I are officially back together! Thank you so much for all your help and guidance throughout these 7 long months. When I look back, I couldn’t have imagined we’d be back together but applying what you teach – It happened. Truly inspirational.
Thanks!

 

 Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMMart P.. ESP Member: Just wanted to let you know that I got back together with my ex! I waited for her to contact me and we met face to face. I used the techniques I had been practicing and we had a good long chat about everything. At the end of the day she realised that she loved me more than she ever has before and within a week we were back together, stronger than before! Thank you all so much for this program, it has been the reason that my heart is now full with love again! Yours extatically, Martin x

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMEdwin M., ESP PP OSG Member: My wife and I are on the road to reconciliation and we’ve been dating, hanging out together and wearing our wedding bands again. We’re in the early stages of making plans for building a house where we can all live and start afresh… Along with my faith in Christ and your private community, I was able to understand my wife’s emotions and how to respond so that I’m sensitive with her but without compromising what’s important to me was something that I had to learn in a very pragmatic and real way.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMRachel C., ESP OSG Member: You and everyone else in the OSG has helped me so much along my journey, but I am happy to say that my ex and I are officially back together! I don’t think I ever would have been able to accomplish it without everything I learned about composure and empathy and everything else in the program.

 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMBoonyi K., ESP OSG Member: I am writing to tell you that, after 6 months and a half following your advice to the letter, I got my ex back! Here is a little feedback and my own success story, feel free to publish it on your website if you want to. Yesterday night, as my ex held my hand, told me I was the only woman he ever wanted to be with, and asked me to go back with him, my thoughts went to you and your program.

THANK YOU so much for making this possible. Your newsletter, podcasts, videos, and classes have not only provided with much precious advice, but also kept me hopeful and positive. Finding Clay’s emails in my mailbox everyday meant so much for me. When I was feeling sad, and it seemed to me that mine was a lost cause, watching Clay’s videos gave me endless confidence and motivation. After six months and a half of patience and commitment, I got my ex back! With much, much gratitude.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMJennifer T., ESP Member: I was a customer of yours about a year ago. Thank you for your program. After the break up you helped me see that my relationship with my now husband could be much stronger than it was before. I continue to see the potential fir growth in any difficulty I face with my spouse. What you gave me was a perspective change. Because of you, my husband and I are expecting a new baby boy on Oct. 5th. Because of your help, there is a new life coming into the world where as during the break up things looked like a disaster.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMBeth D., ESP Member: I live in Canada and my husband left for the Philippines where he found the woman and lived with her for about a year. He said they broke up several times during the year they were together and just knew it will never work. We are now carefully planning our getting back together and we both agreed it will not be the same relationship he walked out of. Believe me I learned a lot from you and can never thank you enough. What a comfort you are to me during my darkest hours. I thought how can this young couple have so much wisdom? Keep up the good work and thank you again. I feel that you are sincere in wanting to help others.

 

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Emma Z., ESP OSG Member: It’s been amazingly supportive to be a part of through a really tough few months for me. Thank you to you & everyone for your advice. It really was such a help to be able to be open and honest with questions when I felt so confused. And having such clear perspectives given by others gave me real peace and positive direction. And it all worked! 

My husband had moved home and we have a new open hearted relationship, things are better than ever. Thank you to you, Clay, Mika and the team. What a wonderful, positive and life changing experience I’ve had through ESP.

 

 

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Kay, ESP OSG Member:

Hi, everyone! So, I’m thinking it’s time to take my leave. I got my ex back using this program a month ago, and I’m thinking it’s time for me to sign off for now. Thanks for all your help, and to everyone out there trying to get their ex back, know that it’s all mind over matter. You can make it happen for you (I made it happen in three months).

 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMJason M., ESP MLA Member:

I’m happy to say that my ex and I are finally working things out thanks to your amazing program. All the personal growth that I have gone through in the process has helped me feel a sense of ownership in my life and has helped me communicate with people overall more effectively. Thank you!!! We are back in a relationship and things are better than ever. In fact, we are currently looking for our dream house to live in. Which brings me to my main reason for this email. I hate to have to go, but I need to shut down my OSG membership monthly expense. 

 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMNareena S. ESP Member

I wanted to write to you to express my gratitude. My ex and I had been together for 1.5 years and living together for a 1 when he decided that he just couldn’t do it anymore and moved out. I was devastated and all my friends told me to just move on, but I knew that we had a connection I had never experienced before and that we really were meant to be together.I have been focusing on the emotional connection with my ex and more importantly finding happiness and success for myself. I am so grateful that I can write to you today to say that we are back together and our love feels more connected and stronger than ever. Thank you so much for your honestly and focus on being active and not playing bullshit mind games. I have learned so much about how to build a healthy lasting relationship from you, and I plan to continue to read your newsletter to remind me how to continue to keep our relationship strong. Thank you!

 

                          

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMJean, ESP MLA Member

Hello, its been 6 months since my wife left, its been a tuff time especially the first weeks and months. The course provided me with everything i needed to understand where my relationship had gone wrong and gave excellent techniques on how to bring the person back into my life. Some of the techniques seemed counter intuitive to start with but the more i applied them the more i noticed that they were really working. I’m now back on good speaking terms with my ex, we enjoy each others company and it feels like we are building something positive, its not romantic yet but she has been confiding in me about her rebound relationship and telling me that its not working and she misses the things we did together when she is with him. She told me she wants to break it off with him and is giving positive signs that there might be a future for us. Thanks for all the resources and support – its a really great course that i would recommend to without hesitation. 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMCameron A. ESP OSG

I was part of this course, part of the osg. Eventually I became a poor student and had to cancel my membership…but I did get my ex back!! Is there a book or something I can read on actually keeping her this time?

 

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMYella B.
ESP MLA Member

I just got a phone call that shocked me big time. A. called me today on my lunch break and said she has been thinking and she wants us to work on US. She admitted that she has been being mean and holding back how she really feels about me because she was hurt and she wanted to have her own way, but she sees that I really want us to work and that I always have her back. She said that she never should have left and that she should have stuck it out with us and that what happened between us didn’t have to cause us to break up. She asked me if I would take her back… WOW! she asked me that. I still cant believe what she just said to me. I told her I want to take it slow because I don’t want us to fall apart again but I do want a chance for us to get it right.

I just want all of you to know that a change can come and that I was a person who dealt with a ex that did everything they could to make me feel bad push me away and make me feel they never loved me but i see now that deep down that was just a cover up. I still want to continue working on my ARS because I know they will better help me understand the issues between A. and I. I still feel like IM dreaming but i will still take it one step at a time. I want to continue to be here for the group because you all are like my family that was there fr me when I was lost. Im here for you guys too. This is a great step and I want to continue to grow.

 

Screen Shot 2016-04-21 at 8.41.57 AMLili B.
ESP MLA Member

It took me a year to get back together.
My success was due to learning the skills and focusing on the connection only, despide of all my odds that were:

  • we spoke only by email
  • we live in different continents
  • he was on a rebound relationship
  • he said he didn’t love me anymore
  • we had broken up twice

We are back together it’s been a month now and as he still works in another continent, he will change his residency from another country to my country and we will live together when he is on vacation, which happens every month and a half.

From when I started learning the relational skills and putting it into practice, it took 8 months, the other 4 months I was doing the wrong things….so we were one year apart

I am sharing with a grateful heart and my advice is: work in yourself, we absolutely need to change ourselves aquiring those skills in order to be ready! many fields in my life were also improved by it. 

I understand now the step back ( our breakups) was just to help me to jump higher! 

with love, 

Lili

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