Hi, my name is I'm Clay. And if you're an action-taker who wants to get your ex back and save your relationship, I'll show you everything you need to know to have a deeper and more profound connection with your ex, so that even if your situation feels hopeless, you both can have a second shot at lasting love.


Alongside with my wife, Mika, we’ve created a comprehensive online training program chock full of videos, mp3s and video trainings exclusive only to our members.

This program is an online video course that we've compiled from years of teaching and coaching people personally how to get back together with their ex after their ex had completely given up on them.

These coaching clients have paid thousands of dollars to work with us to help them save their relationships… many of those clients are now in a relationship with or married to the people they used to call their ex.  

Here’s a peek at what you can find inside the Ex Solution Program so you can decide it’s right for you before you sign up today:


The Ex Solution Program is for people who want to rebuild a stronger connection with their ex so that they get get another chance to have that great, wonderful, romantic, sexy, and fulfilling relationship with the person that they love.

Inside the Program You'll Learn How to Maximize Your Chances of Reuniting With Your Love And..

  • The secret emotion your ex feels that will literally make it impossible for you two to get back together (At least until you destroy this emotion once and for all with the Advanced Relational Skills we cover in the course)
  • A stealth way to ethically take your ex’s focus off of anyone they might be dating right now, and pull it right back to you (This is how you can get your ex back from a rebound relationship)
  • How to never run out of things to talk to your ex about that will open them up and sharing more of themselves with you than you ever imagined possible
  • How often you should contact your ex before asking them to meet up with you (and what to do if they are still reluctant)
  • The 5 WORST mistakes you can make when texting your ex that will completely kill the good vibes between you and have them ignoring your messages
  • How to ask your ex for what you really want without coming across as pushy or risking turning them off (this is the key to having more connection and a rational discussion about the two of you)
  • Your ex says that they don’t love you anymore, so your situation is hopeless, right? Wrong. When you understand your ex’s emotional psychology, you’ll see why you absolutely still have a chance (even if things seem hopeless)
  • Why your ex isn’t even willing to talk to you, and the surprisingly counter-intuitive thing you can do to get them to open up to you again
  • How to dissolve the pressure and anxiety you may feel around your ex so that you can relax and be the easy-going person they first fell in love with

  Learn How to Deepen the Emotional Connection So That Your Ex Remembers How Much You Mean to Them And...

  • When sex with your ex could actually backfire on you terribly, unless you make sure THIS is in place first
  • Worried about walking on eggshells around your ex? Use the simple 4-step communication strategy to make sure that you don’t piss off your ex or risk having your words taken the wrong way
  • The most dangerous thing people do when they contact their ex that actually destroys their chances of getting back together (and, no, it has nothing to do with begging, pleading, or being desperate)
  • Getting nothing but dead silence after texting your ex? Follow these texting and contact guidelines to get back on speaking terms fast
  • Why you absolutely do NOT need to worry about attracting your ex back (hint: they are ALREADY attracted to you, even if they say they aren’t, and I’ll prove it to you)
  • How and when to apologize to your ex (don’t even think of apologizing to your ex unless you meet these criteria and follow this communication strategy, or else you’ll really be sorry)
  • Does your ex want to be “friends” with you? Believe it or not, this is actually a GOOD thing… if you know how to leverage it to your advantage properly
  • The 5 emotional stages of getting back together that your ex will pass though (how to identify which stage your ex is in, and what you should do in each stage)
  • The ONLY time you should ever directly ask your ex to get back together with you (if you ignore this, don’t be surprised if you experience a humiliating rejection)
  • Every time you look in the mirror, you are either looking at your biggest obstacle in getting your ex back or your greatest ally. I’ll show you how to make sure you’re your own biggest supporter... And so much more!

Nope, I'm Not Holding Back Here... 

Every strategy I’ve compiled is in here, from helping people save their relationships (since 2009) to increasing the positive bond between you and your ex so that you can get back together with them.

These are all the strategies and techniques that I’ve learned over the years from helping personal coaching clients (who pay several thousand dollars to get help with their relationships) get back together with their exes. These are real life people who are now back together with, married to, or enjoying raising a family together with the people that they used to call their ex.

Also, I know that every relationship is unique and you might have a tricky situation or need a little bit of extra help. If that’s the case, then you also have the option of adding the “Modern Love Association to your membership when you join today.

Get Personal Support to Your Unique Situation Inside the Modern Love Association

  • Monthly Challenge lessons (ONLY available to online community members) to help maximize your progress with your ex
  • The opportunity to ask your specific questions during our weekly Mentorship Q&A sessions with the creators of the program
  • Access to over 100+ recordings of Mentorship Q&A sessions, we've answered every conceivable question you might possibly have
  • Plus special early access to new courses, discounts, and other members only perks

This Program Is NOT For You If...

This program may not be a good fit for you if you are any of the following:

  • You think a “ninja” text message is all it’s going to take to save your relationship
  • You are looking for mind games or reverse psychology tricks to use on your ex
  • You don’t want to put any actual work into saving your relationship, you just want to know what to say
  • You don’t have the patience or discipline to follow instructions
  • You don’t want to take responsibility for the results you’re getting with your ex or in life
  • You are looking for mind games or reverse psychology tricks to use on your ex
  • You don’t want to put any actual work into saving your relationship, you just want to know what to say
  • You don’t have the patience or discipline to follow instructions
  • You don’t want to take responsibility for the results you’re getting with your ex or in life

If any of the above sounds like you, I'm sorry but I don't think we'd be a good fit together.  

We've worked with people who turned out to be not the best fit because they wanted short cuts and were not willing to do the work that we've laid out inside the program. The last thing we want to do is waste anyone's time or your money.  

If I haven’t scared you away yet (I do have to filter out the non-action takers from the action-takers), there’s still a chance that you might be a good fit for the Ex Solution Program.  

And if you want in and ready to inspire your ex's love and attention back, I invite you to join below.

Why the Ex Solution Program Is the Best Program Online in Helping You Get Results With Your Ex:

  • Get Personal Support From People Who Know Exactly What You're Experiencing 
  • Based On Successful REAL RESULTS, Not Theory
  • Helping You and Your Ex Move Forward Together. No "Tricks" or "Manipulation" Type of Advice

Get your personal questions answered inside the Modern Love Community and get advice and feedback from other members and our entire team (including the creators of the program.) You can also ask Mika and Clay your specific questions inside the weekly Mentorship Q&A. We don’t just give you a book and say, “Good luck, I hope you figure this out.” We’re here for you over the long haul as we help hold you accountable to sticking to the materials inside the program so that you can maximize your chances of getting your ex back.

We've helped thousands of people get results. We've cried, bled and sweat committing our time to helping those going through a breakup. What we teach inside the Ex Solution Program is based on the results we've gotten with the thousands of people we've worked with over the course of time. We've helped people reunite with their ex, save their marriage, and many have even gotten married and started a family with their ex because of this program. This isn't just a weekend "hobby", helping people with their breakups and love life is our mission. 

We don't believe in advice like "Time heals all wounds" or "If it was meant to be, it was meant to be" or "If they really loved you..." Nope. Nada. Not an ounce of what we call societal "Fluff Advice." Instead you will get tangible advice based on interpersonal relational skills that will increase the emotional connection between you and your ex so that you can stand head and shoulders above the person who your ex think they broke up with (or who your ex might be currently dating.) We not only help people get their ex to open up to them, we help people successful date their ex.

Member Experiences:  

"I think last time we checked in, I was a bit frustrated with how slowly things were moving with G.. Wellll, a lot has happened since then.  

After many months of taking it slow, and talking through our values, our wants,our fears, and life paths, G. proposed to me! We'll be getting married in July sometime and moving to Tanzania together shortly afterward. I can't tell you how grateful I am to you both for your support and guidance through this all.  

It wasn't easy and certainly made me dig deeply inside myself to figure out what my values really are, my boundaries and how to communicate these to my partner, how to be ok with being vulnerable, and how to focus on the process rather than on the outcome, etc. My relationship is different because I now have the tools I need to be loved for who I am and to address issues when they arise in a way that is constructive to building closeness rather than divisiveness.

Thank you so much for your commitment to making others' lives better and for the time you gave me in coaching, through your courses, podcasts, and Q&As."

Nathalie L., Washington D.C., USA

UPDATE: Married August 2017

"I went from a seemingly impossible situation to being reunited with my girlfriend. Considering that I now have the woman of my dreams back in my life, the money I invested in this coaching program was worth every penny. Mika and Clay are passionate about helping people get back together and supporting their clients. Their advice was spot-on. Without it, I would have never gotten back together with my girlfriend. We are now talking about the possibility of getting married."

Stephen C., Conneticut, USA

UPDATE: Married in summer of 2014  

"I am one who got back together with my ex. We had a very tender moment where he was able to tell me (with a few tears of gratitude) that he was so grateful for a second chance with me after making such a horrible mistake. We are doing well and I'm still able to practice acceptance and awareness and remain in the moments when we are together. 

A quote I like: "A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows wide open. Plenty of air is circulating and no one feels trapped. Relationships thrive in this environment. Keep your doors and windows open. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world, will not make them leave. Trust that truth." I've adopted this truth into my thinking. I also have made this my personal mantra if you will and I find it so important in this unique situation of being back together with B and moving forward: I'm letting go of what was (the old relationship) and accepting what is (where things are in the process in the NOW, being present) and I'm hopeful for what will be (the new relationship and what's coming). 

I know a lot of you are really hurting. Stick with the program. What you'll get (the ex back is just the icing in the cake) is a stronger and healthier YOU!! Blessings all!"

Lisa S., Seattle, WA, USA

UPDATE: Married in September of 2017  

"We were broken up for 4 months before I joined. The tables turned and I wasn't sure I wanted to be with him after all of it. He had to prove to me that things would be different this time and that we would work through the issues we had before and only then did we decide return as a couple. Now we are going through pre-marital counseling and planning to marry next year already! Don't give up. Follow through the program. Yes, it will be hard and painful at times, but trust the process and it'll pay off."

Faye C., USA

UPDATE: Married in May of 2014 and welcomed a baby boy in 2016  

"Things went fantastic. We were laughing and joking like old times. Eventually he brought up that he thinks he can tell that I’d like to try things again and he’s okay with that as long as we take it slowly and let things happen on their own time. I know that I’m not nearly finished working on myself and my relationship (and we never really are, are we?), but I’m so glad to have gotten here and I owe all of you my thanks and gratitude. This will be a long journey for my ex and I, but I’m excited to see where it takes me."

Kelly W., Lousisana, USA

"Hi Clay, Mika and the team! I am ecstatic to let you guys know that after over a year of being broken up I finally got my ex back! It was an extremely tough journey at times but i am so thankful for you guys and the program. I don't think i could have done it without your amazing advice and help of the MLA. As i talked things through with my ex at crisis point, everything he said truly matched how you guys explained their emotions through the process. And thanks to the program I've grown so much as a person and he definitely noticed, it showed him that things truly can work out. Through the program I also feel like i made some great friends along the way! You guys really helped make the process an amazing experience looking back on it. I still have a long way to go in self improvement of course. And still definitely plan to keep practicing the challenges and ARS. But i just wanted to say thank you guys so much!"

Hannah N., USA

"Could you please post my success story in the online group? I’m hoping this will be a source of encouragement for everyone in the community: Last night my ex asked if he could come over because he really wanted to see me. I reluctantly agreed. The second I opened the door, he walked in without saying a word, grabbed me and picked me up, then said, “I’m still in love with you.”  

My heart jumped out of my chest! I couldn’t believe it was happening, especially after I’d given up on the idea of reconciliation because it seemed impossible at that point.

I honestly owe it all to active no contact. Time away from my ex was much needed. It was so important to get “me” back. Working on ARS was equally important. It helped me communicate with my ex in a way I never thought I could. I’m not going to lie, it wasn’t an easy process. And, if any of you remember, I did give up on the idea of getting back together at one point. But time allowed my ex to come around and it let me get to a healthier, more balanced place in my life.

If you feel that time away from your ex is needed, I would highly recommend it. Practice Advanced Relational Sklls whenever you can and no matter how discouraged you may feel, just remember that getting back together with your ex really can happen. So please keep your chin up. Thank you all for your support while I was a member of online support group. I will miss you all dearly."

Zoe L. United States

There's No Risk For You

You've have 30 days from the date of purchase to use the Ex Solution Program. Follow the program, do what it says, and see the dramatic changes that occur in your life and in your relationship with your ex.  

If the program doesn't work for you, send our team an email to request a refund within that 30-day period and we can help you out. No hard feelings. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose.

Learn more about our refund policy, click here.  

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